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What does “having it all” mean to you? Is it attainable?
The answer to the question that the mind wants is only given in time. Sometimes we are very much worried about what will happen now and what will happen, when will happen. Every question is disturbing to the mind, we can’t put any restrictions on the thoughts that come up or they can’t even stop. Sometimes we are so well equipped that it is very easy for us to do any task but then we take help from others and that is when one of our decisions goes wrong. Our thought system is so vast that it can make the impossible possible. All you need to do is to realize what you want. Sometimes things just happen without asking. Sometimes even those things cannot be achieved.
You said that you love your girlfriend very much and you have been friends for many years. You met her for the first time in class and you both went to the same school. After school, you called her after two or three years and asked her to meet you. You were very nervous to meet her because you had never met any girl before. You reached the decided place and met her after a few minutes. She called you and told you to come to a certain place. You walked and talked with her.
You were happy because you met a girl for the first time in your life and talked to her. You walked and chatted with her and because she had told her home that she would go to her uncle’s place, you did not get much time with her. You dropped her at her uncle’s colony and when you were going fast on your bike, you touched her and pulled her to your side and told her to go this way. Then you dropped her at her uncle’s colony and left for home.
That touch and the joy that came to your mind made you fall in love with her and you called her again after a month to meet her and you met again. Then from then on, she would always call me after college or whenever she got time. That call and her talking made me happy and I fell in love with her. Her nature and her talking became the most dear to me. Then we started meeting and talking more and when I went to meet her next time, I gave her a rose and told her that I like her very much. She accepted the rose and also accepted my love. Her call and her charming company benefited me. Sometimes she would call me or sometimes I would call her and we would get engrossed in talking for hours on the phone. I am happy that I got her company but more than that, she understands me, tells me. She calls me every day, this journey of hers has benefited me for life and I will surely get to do what I want in my life and also stay in her love and company.
I love her dearly as she loves me and will continue to do so.
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Everyone has a hobby of collecting something from childhood. When we are little kids and go out with our mother whenever we go out, whenever she stands on the ground for some time, we immediately sit down and start throwing stones and look at things like soil to eat, such fun and beginning is our childhood.
As we grow up little by little, we first start throwing small stones in our small hands. Small small pebbles play with them and throw them up and down and want to throw them in a small pit made near them, such a game to play who will win as many pebbles as he will have such a game we played in childhood. Then at that time collecting pebbles was a collection.
Childhood was a lot of fun, there is no doubt about it. The days of playing various games and having fun in childhood are remembered as if I want to get childhood again and have fun again.
When we start going to school, we don’t want to go to school as soon as we reach the school premises, then we have to cry, then mom or dad give us some money for chocolate then we are very happy to go to school. Then collecting money is a small collection. Mom takes us to school so that we don’t cry, mom collects one chocolate and gives us all at once on holiday day, such a different kind of hobby.
Sometimes we collect coins for fun or for saving, this can also be called a collection.
Everyone’s best collection is that from childhood we save our clothes, that is always remembered because these clothes are my favorite.
Even when in school, collecting various things or pencils, pens is very fun, I will keep them like this.
Share a story about someone who had a positive impact on your life.
There was once a young boy who grew up in a poor family. Despite their financial struggles, his mother always made sure that he had enough to eat and clothes to wear. She worked long hours at a factory to provide for her family.
One day, the boy’s teacher noticed that he was having trouble keeping up in class. She took the time to work with him after school and helped him improve his grades. The boy was grateful for her help and worked hard to make her proud.
Years later, the boy grew up to be a successful businessman. He never forgot the kindness of his teacher and the sacrifices his mother made for him. He used his success to give back to his community and help others in need.
The positive impact of his mother and teacher stayed with him throughout his life and inspired him to make a difference in the world.
When it comes to balancing work and home life, the only thing that comes to mind is the one person we love dearly, dear wife. When I say love, I always think of my girlfriend because of my undying love for her and her absolute trust in me. When we take special care of our beloved wife, she wants nothing but us and that is very important to us. Even the person you love is treated like their own child by your family members and she also feels like one of them and she also blends in with everyone. When she helps and cares for us in times of trouble without thinking, she maintains the domestic balance in our home and in orderly perfection. Whenever there is any problem, she is always at the forefront and sees to it that everything goes smoothly.
A Sunday and the comfort of a holiday means freedom for me. Sunday is called a week off. The only respite from the busyness of work was vacations and rest days. We are always busy with work every day, whether one has a business or a job, he wants a separate day for himself. Sunday is a holiday and it seems to be a day to be spent in full celebration. Wake up comfortably in the morning or wake up your wife. Then get up and take a bath and worship God and have breakfast. In a short time, you should go for a walk in your own car. Happiness is the charming laughter, moments we spend with family.
We are always going to work but family also needs our time, they will never show us by talking that I want your tomorrow. So I think that if there is a holiday, I should spend time with them and relieve them of the stress of the week. We bring peace of mind in our own way when our partner is with our family. Even our free day should be spent with our loved one i.e. wife. She may also be working or not working but she takes care of us perfectly every day of the week with enthusiasm and joy. Gets up first and makes a bin for you, keeping your preferences organized. They also do not give a single reason, she tries her best and remains the best for everyone. No matter what the season or what the festival, she is always ready, never looking to rest, she is always doing something to make us feel like her own. Then we should also celebrate Sunday freely for her.
If she leaves her separate existence and is included in our life, even the smallest moment is very important for her. She doesn’t ask for much, all she wants is some time and love. Even if you give her some time with us, she is so happy that she herself thinks that she has got all the happiness in the world.
I will fulfill my love and pamper my beloved after my marriage. Sometimes I think it would be a pleasure for her to love her dearly, aside from her anger. I have slowly come to know everything because of my love and I am happy that since she came to me I started to gather support, feelings and care for her.
List the people you admire and look to for advice…
People who have a good work ethic and want to be better at what they do. People who are open-minded and like to discuss new ideas, even if they don’t make sense at first. People who are willing to change and work. People who are loyal, friends, family, ideas, mostly themselves. People who realize that they cannot be kind to others at the cost of their own health. People who know that love is a wonderful gift in life, at the same time know that they cannot force their love on others. People who know how hard life is and don’t run when faced with hard facts. People who know they are short on personality or character are still willing to work on it. People who understand that youth does not make a man strong, that growing older does not make a man wiser or wiser, and that age does not make him all-knowing. People who lift others up do not pull them down. People who work to improve their community and not diminish it. People who speak the truth are not always remembered.
A conversation occurs when two strangers meet again and again by chance more than once. Gradually communication leads to friendship and then worries about when to meet again, how nice and simple this person is, curiosity to know his nature increases, then meetings happen and friendship grows stronger. Even if they are friends since childhood, something like this happens. Going to school, college together, playing, friendship grows and later turns into love.
As the two interact with each other, merging into the single thought of love, and as their thoughts gradually come to agree with each other’s thoughts, they express belongingness, affection, and innocent love for each other. There is mutual support, advice and joint management for everything.
It is really beneficial to have that one person in your life. While talking to her on the phone, I don’t know when the hours pass, I feel like I want to talk to her for hours. Her love has such a capacity that a moment in her company feels so special that one feels invited to meet her again and again and keep looking at her and her smile, her blushes captivate the heart. A small moment of moments makes our life. Having her in front of your eyes is always a heartwarming companionship that feels like every moment with her is a blissful one.
I always wish to meet her every day and continue to receive this sweetness of love. Take her for a walk and indulge in her nature. Falling in love with her always makes the mind happy, feels like spending evenings with her every day. Sit close to her and sleep with your head on her lap and look at her.
I have heard that love is hard but it is a true truth, life is happy because of that person, but in that happiness we feel her love is very beautiful. The arrival of a girl in a boy’s life gradually changes it. Taking care of her and her responsibility, her anger, frustration and many more.
When is the last time you took a risk? How did it work out?
Taking risks is necessary to develop yourself personally so there will be no changes and matches to prove yourself between you. Taking a chance can bring tremendous benefits and possibilities that you might not otherwise have experienced, whether it’s trying a new hobby, applying for a new job, or starting a business. Along with something, when we awaken the person in us somewhere, the need to take risks and fully experience it and rush to make it happen, and we are very much punished for it. However, because there is always the risk of failure, taking chances can also be daunting and intimidating.
This blog article will discuss the value of taking chances and give some examples from your own life.
Taking chances is important because they enable us to step outside our comfort zone and try new things. So our belief that we need to change ourselves to be successful in our lives is always at the forefront and is also strong. When we stay in our comfort zones, we limit our potential for progress. By taking chances, we can discover new interests and abilities as well as develop abilities we may not have. Plus, taking chances can open up amazing possibilities and experiences that we might not otherwise have had. By stepping outside of our comfort zone, we expose ourselves to a world of opportunities.
When we sometimes draw conclusions about what we do not know, we are therefore not always afraid and ready to take risks, and our opinion at every step is always experienced and moderated to help make our life happy and happy. Where there is no risk, there is no desire, whether it is work or employment, whether it is one’s own business. Always learning something new means that with experience and patience it becomes much easier to overcome time properly.
Write about a time when you didn’t take action but wish you had. What would you do differently?
Let me tell you from my own experience, I was working at a place where I used to reach work regularly from 10 am to 10:30 am. Work always begins with the worship of God. There is a small temple of God where I used to work and I used to salute the temple from the entrance and start work. The work started very well and I started working there. After a few days I completed one month of work, I got one month salary. I was working there. He was hit by an icer truck belonging to the owner’s driver and his legs were severely hit and both his legs were shattered. Therefore, he was recruited near the place where his accident happened, he was immediately admitted to the hospital for two months after paying some money for surgery on both his legs. Except for one day, the race continued for them. How could the owner not even notice that I was spending more time at work then. This went on for a few months and the salary started getting irregular, sometimes four or five days for the salary was here and there so it went on and on. Gradually I found the work easy and I was doing it wholeheartedly. Month after month went by and just a few days left to complete a year, this corona outbreak started. Earlier it was announced that everything would be closed for two or four days..
But the lockdown took not one or two months but more than a year and then when I called once, they picked up the call and said that your salary is not going out, but I have to take money from you. Even though there is a lockdown, even when the transport is going on, I was not paid the last month’s salary and they said that even if you come to work, I was fired. At that time I was feeling very sad that despite working I did not get one month’s salary, at that time I also told at home my father said in lockdown let’s see otherwise you would have filed a police complaint. I felt a little better about my father that he was willing to help me. When the lockdown was announced with little regulation, I said to my father that I will tell the police officers and see if they will help me, but my father backed off and said do what you have to do. I later asked the owner of the work several times to pay me my money but he refused me and has not paid till today. So I finally retreated that even if I could do it alone I also stopped because even the police officers would not listen to me at that time. Bad things feel that even if we act selflessly, the other person does not realize them.
Anxiety is an integral part of a natural vision, if you don’t worry you can’t live, so it feels better to do so because it brings maximum happiness to the mind. Worry is always nagging, the nagging question of whether we can win or move forward if we don’t do something. From the time we are small, we cry only when the mother rushes to us and picks us up, worrying about what has happened to her baby. We always think whether parents will bring us something to eat is a concern, so whether we stay in the world until father comes home or worry about bringing food for us when he comes. Even when we are a little older, we feel the same anxiety. Even at the time of the exam, there is anxiety and frustration, that is whether the study is complete or not. Even after making some changes in yourself to succeed in life, you always feel like you have done something wrong, even if you haven’t done anything wrong, how you have failed. As we grow older, we are left with the same frustration of whether the family members are satisfied with the responsibilities that fall on us. Sometimes, despite all the efforts, the mind remains anxious and disappointed, but everything feels incomplete.
Describe a decision you made in the past that helped you learn or grow.
To have your own house for the future, you should start now so that in the next 10 years you will own a small house.
We have been hearing since childhood that education for tomorrow is never better. It goes without saying that the more education there is, the more progressive life flow will be. Grandparents also always say that it is always better to save a little money for our future. A deposit of saved money becomes a great gift for us when in our time of need it is not so big but it is special enough to support the mind. When we save the little money we got while going to school and buy something we like or play things when we are on vacation, we also know that if we keep saving each and every penny, sometimes that amount will be in the form of a small amount but a good amount. It is also the same in our real life. It is very important that we always think about the future. Today’s hard work will be very beneficial for tomorrow. I will always try that it is important for me to think of saving at least a little bit for my future. Spending money and time on small things today is a huge loss for tomorrow. Learned methods and artefacts that should be wasted on learning as much as possible today will be very useful for the future as the art is known. By applying education and knowledgable arts in the future, we can create our own unique identity and it will be important to shape our own future. Be big enough to take responsibility for your own home and your family in the future. While always striving for the future, we can move forward and take care of the present. In the future, I want to live a comfortable life, even if it is small, but I can live happily for a home and family. To be successful in life, making changes in yourself is as important as money and house for the future. Later in life, when responsibility comes to us, it becomes very obligatory for us to make the changes we want accordingly. Sometimes spending time with friends and partying with them is a net expense that can be put to good use and is of great benefit. As always, save time for small things and spend the time with your family. Achieving a quality of life that is appropriate for each day means that the future in life is accelerated.
What place in the world do you never want to visit? Why?
It’s hard to say that there is a place in the world that we wouldn’t want to visit or visit again. It is very difficult to say anything about a place i.e. why one cannot visit it is very difficult.
Sometimes we feel something scary with us or we feel something scary in the place where we are going for a walk, or by hearing about something terrible that happened there, or by someone telling us, it can happen that when we get a fear of a place in our mind, it stays in our mind and we stop visiting it because of that. It has also often happened that sometimes as a group we mean young boys and girls go for a walk in the mountains or forts, sometimes because of the excessive fun of the children sometimes we get killed or because of someone’s fun we have to lose our own life and we are there at that time seeing the visual consequences. Remember never to visit this place again or come here again.
Sometimes there are some places that are so scary that I am afraid to go there, such as wandering in the forest, a cave or a magical place that is strictly forbidden.
Sometimes it happens that we are in the company of our friends and when someone speaks against our mind, we always decide that we will never come to this place again.
Even when we are in our family we have seen many times that we take the same decision even after quarreling with our own family members due to some reason I will never come back to this place again.
यह रातें यह बातें कहने जैसी कोई बात नहीं चांद की छांव के बाद सूरज को भी तो आना है ।।
सफल हो या असफल लोगों को तो सूनाना है बात कोई ऐसी हो जिसमें लोगों ने ना कहा हो ।।
बात थोड़ी कड़वी है कहीं सच बोलने पर गुस्सा अक्षर आता है सही बात करने पर ।।
लोगों का तो कहना है इनसे कुछ ना होगा बात को सुनकर अनसुना करना है ।।
मंजिलें तो कही है मेहनत भी तो करनी है हासिल होगा एक दिन जमाने को भी तो दिखाना है ।।
हमे क्या करना है यह हमे खुद को पता होता है फिर लोग हमारे बारे मैं क्या सोचेंगे या क्या बोलेंगे यह सोचना ही नही चाहिए।।कही बार हम यह सोचते है की वह क्या सोचते होंगे हमारे बारे मैं यही सोच के कारण हमे उदासी छाई हुई होती है ।।जीवन आनंद और उत्साह से जीना चाहिए जैसे की हम अपने दोस्तों के साथ कुछपल बिता है वैसे ही हमे हमेशा जीना चाहिए ।।बचपन मैं जैसे दोस्तों को यारी मैं घुलमिल जाते है वैसे ही जीने का आनंद पूरा उठाना चाहिए ।।चाहे हम हो या बच्चे हमेशा जीवन जिनेका मकसत हमारा खुशी ही होनी चाहिए ना की कोई परेशानी का कारण ।।हर व्यक्त नाराज़ होने अच्छा मनचाहा काम करे या मनचाहे वह घूमने निकल चल पड़े ।।
Happiness for a moment with you.... 